The Disciplinary Wives Club (DWC) was an organization that supported couples, who are practicing, or are considering practicing, a domestic discipline lifestyle, where the wife or female partner (or designated partner in same sex couples is the head of the household. The DWC also provided support for individuals who would like to find a partner with whom to practice the lifestyle.
While each DWC couple practices the lifestyle in their own way, the lifestyle generally involves the wifevbeing in charge of some, or all, aspects of the couple’s relationship. The husband (or male partner) isvexpected to follow certain behavioral rules set by the wife, and when he does not, he is disciplined by the wife. While that discipline can take a variety of forms, the most common form of discipline is spanking.
Unlike spanking play or BDSM, the discipline administered by the wife in a DWC relationship is not foreplay or directly sexual, but is for behavioral modification. Generally, it is the husband that initiates discussion about adopting the lifestyle, and the men in the lifestyle are the ones who desire to be disciplined.
Most men in the lifestyle have what would be considered a spanking fetish, in addition to a need to be disciplined.
The organization was started in 1994 by Aunt Kay and her husband Jerry, who, in adopting the lifestyle themselves, discovered there was very little support or material to assist them. In 2014 the site disappeared. Over the years, they have helped thousands of couples and individuals.
Here, you can find some pages of the DWC’s website rescued from oblivion, that at the time provided support material, including howto sections and instructive letters from those actually practicing the lifestyle.